I will add more later when I have time.
Monday, April 4, 2011
More Pic's
To follow the lady's lead I am going to post some of my favorite pictures that we have. I am also going to try to remember to write about our first shower that we just had this past weekend tomorrow. Here are some of my favorite.
I will add more later when I have time.
I will add more later when I have time.
Sunday, April 3, 2011
Engagement Photos!
They're here!
I (Shelley) am picking some of my favorites (and trying not to pick Seth's favorites!) to show you, so enjoy :)
I (Shelley) am picking some of my favorites (and trying not to pick Seth's favorites!) to show you, so enjoy :)
Sunday, March 27, 2011
368 down, 83 to go!
Seth and I just hit the 1-year mark on our engagement!
I started reminiscing about the day Seth proposed. I remember an awful lot of tiny details... It was a Wednesday, which were the LONGEST days of the week. I ate lunch at 10 am... Which Wich with Greg. I was just looking forward to dinner with Seth the whole day. A few things happened that day that I didn't think of till later: one friend saw my class ring on my right hand and asked me about it... another friend danced with me in the hallway after seminar and told me it was our last dance. I had no clue.
Finally, after band was over, I scooted to the bathroom to change for our dinner date. Seth had bought me a dress that he wanted me to wear that night, so I had it on. I got in the car, and Seth had orange tulips for me. He ran into the School of Music quickly, so I waited in the car. We hit the road, on our way to Catch 22.
Seth asked me if I liked his sunglasses, which I had already told him I did but I told him again. I saw him check the directions, which made perfect sense to me. I mean, I had no clue where Catch 22 was located. He took an exit, made a few turns, and I began to recognize the roads... we were headed along the same route that takes us to the Milne's lake house. I asked him if he remembered, which he said he didn't. I couldn't believe it, so I started basically harassing him about his inability to remember directions. Ugh... I feel so bad about it now!
I couldn't believe it when we pulled onto the Milne's street. I asked Seth if we were eating with them. He said no, they were at choir practice; we were just there to watch the sunset. So when we got out of the car and walked to the dock, I sat down to watch the sunset! The FIRST time I caught the hint was when he asked me to stand with him.
And then he proposed :)
Yes, on one knee, with the ring out of his pocket and in his hand. With the question of "Will you marry me?".
:)
Then, instead of taking me to a restaurant, he had another surprise for me. The Milne's and Bronwyn, my roommate, were inside the house. Bronwyn had taken pictures of our engagement, and the Milne's hosted a dinner for us. It was absolutely perfect. Dr. Rick had even burned an Engagement Mix CD for us.
And after dinner, when we got back to my apartment, my friends had a surprise party for us. It was perfect. Really.
I have to admit, the rest of this year hasn't been so perfect. Wedding plans are stressful, and school is even more so. But in my life are three constants: God, my parents, and Seth. They are the only reason I've made it this far this year. And I just needed to thank them publicly for the strength they have given me when I had none of my own. For those of you who read this blog, thank you for your friendship. Because even if you have no knowledge of what's gone on in my life this year, your hugs and smiles and friendship have changed my days. I thank God for you, too.
So, with only 83 days left, I ask you for one favor: to pray for me and Seth - for patience with each other, for faith with jobs, for perseverance with school, for grace in our ministry, and for our love to continue to grow that we might better serve our Lord, His kingdom, and each other.
Oh, just in case you were wondering... to complete our engagement story, I took Seth out to Catch 22 on Thursday, March 24, 2011.
And if you're thankful for a new blog post, you can thank Gerald Ligon ;).
Edit: TOTALLY forgot to tell you what some of the little details meant (or the background story). The dress Seth bought me, he bought it with the help of my best friend, Katrina. I had mentioned previously how I wished she could be involved in our engagement somehow - and she was! When Seth asked me about his sunglasses, it was a ploy to take my eyes off the road so I would miss the HUGE billboard that says where Catch 22 is located - NOT the directions we were taking. Seth had owned the ring since the previous May... unbelievable for a boy who can't keep secrets. He LIED to me about CIU school meetings in order to meet my dad and ask his permission - in January. Seth had planned this date with me over a month before - it was 2 days after my junior recital, and we knew leading up to it we'd barely get to see each other... so it all made sense to me. I wasn't expecting it; I tell people God made me oblivious, because usually I pick up on things quickly. I'm so thankful He did that, too. Those are the details I remember, but Seth may add his side of the story later :)
I started reminiscing about the day Seth proposed. I remember an awful lot of tiny details... It was a Wednesday, which were the LONGEST days of the week. I ate lunch at 10 am... Which Wich with Greg. I was just looking forward to dinner with Seth the whole day. A few things happened that day that I didn't think of till later: one friend saw my class ring on my right hand and asked me about it... another friend danced with me in the hallway after seminar and told me it was our last dance. I had no clue.
Finally, after band was over, I scooted to the bathroom to change for our dinner date. Seth had bought me a dress that he wanted me to wear that night, so I had it on. I got in the car, and Seth had orange tulips for me. He ran into the School of Music quickly, so I waited in the car. We hit the road, on our way to Catch 22.
Seth asked me if I liked his sunglasses, which I had already told him I did but I told him again. I saw him check the directions, which made perfect sense to me. I mean, I had no clue where Catch 22 was located. He took an exit, made a few turns, and I began to recognize the roads... we were headed along the same route that takes us to the Milne's lake house. I asked him if he remembered, which he said he didn't. I couldn't believe it, so I started basically harassing him about his inability to remember directions. Ugh... I feel so bad about it now!
I couldn't believe it when we pulled onto the Milne's street. I asked Seth if we were eating with them. He said no, they were at choir practice; we were just there to watch the sunset. So when we got out of the car and walked to the dock, I sat down to watch the sunset! The FIRST time I caught the hint was when he asked me to stand with him.
And then he proposed :)
Yes, on one knee, with the ring out of his pocket and in his hand. With the question of "Will you marry me?".
:)
Then, instead of taking me to a restaurant, he had another surprise for me. The Milne's and Bronwyn, my roommate, were inside the house. Bronwyn had taken pictures of our engagement, and the Milne's hosted a dinner for us. It was absolutely perfect. Dr. Rick had even burned an Engagement Mix CD for us.
And after dinner, when we got back to my apartment, my friends had a surprise party for us. It was perfect. Really.
I have to admit, the rest of this year hasn't been so perfect. Wedding plans are stressful, and school is even more so. But in my life are three constants: God, my parents, and Seth. They are the only reason I've made it this far this year. And I just needed to thank them publicly for the strength they have given me when I had none of my own. For those of you who read this blog, thank you for your friendship. Because even if you have no knowledge of what's gone on in my life this year, your hugs and smiles and friendship have changed my days. I thank God for you, too.
So, with only 83 days left, I ask you for one favor: to pray for me and Seth - for patience with each other, for faith with jobs, for perseverance with school, for grace in our ministry, and for our love to continue to grow that we might better serve our Lord, His kingdom, and each other.
Oh, just in case you were wondering... to complete our engagement story, I took Seth out to Catch 22 on Thursday, March 24, 2011.
And if you're thankful for a new blog post, you can thank Gerald Ligon ;).
Edit: TOTALLY forgot to tell you what some of the little details meant (or the background story). The dress Seth bought me, he bought it with the help of my best friend, Katrina. I had mentioned previously how I wished she could be involved in our engagement somehow - and she was! When Seth asked me about his sunglasses, it was a ploy to take my eyes off the road so I would miss the HUGE billboard that says where Catch 22 is located - NOT the directions we were taking. Seth had owned the ring since the previous May... unbelievable for a boy who can't keep secrets. He LIED to me about CIU school meetings in order to meet my dad and ask his permission - in January. Seth had planned this date with me over a month before - it was 2 days after my junior recital, and we knew leading up to it we'd barely get to see each other... so it all made sense to me. I wasn't expecting it; I tell people God made me oblivious, because usually I pick up on things quickly. I'm so thankful He did that, too. Those are the details I remember, but Seth may add his side of the story later :)
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Our Columbia church home
One of the most difficult realities (personally) facing me and Seth as we get ready to move on in our lives is the awareness that we will be leaving our church, First Baptist of Columbia. I honestly use the term "our" church because I feel so much at home when I'm there. To FBCola, I'm not just a college student who is probably attending for the free food... no, I'm a soul who has talents to give, needs to fill, and a spirit to water and revive. This semester, we are much more active than we have been, and it is so rewarding. Seth is interning with the Music Ministry, but he works with the sound guys, too - and he's head over heels about the passion that everyone in this church has for their positions. I've joined the choir, and I have never in my life met a group of people more genuinely interested in me and more supportive through prayer and encouragement. Our mentors are at this church, both individually and as a couple. We have made plans to model our future ministry after the church's model and priorities.
It's an incredible joy to join in worship each week with the members of this church, and it's an honor to learn from a man so wise and relatable as Pastor Estep. I'd really encourage you to watch the podcast of at least his sermon today - it's Valentine's related, and it's challenging. You'll find it here... and seriously, watch it.
I could pray all day long that Seth and I never face the challenge of falling out of love with each other, but even the movie Fireproof taught us this simple truth: A marriage which is "fireproof" is not free from the threat of fire but rather is prepared to defend itself from the fires.
I know that Seth and I have no real clue of what's ahead of us, but I do know that we are doing our best to make our relationship fireproof.
And if you're ever in Columbia on a Sunday morning, visit church with us. You'll see just why we love it.
Or just watch it on TV, if you live in SC or Savannah or Augusta!
It's an incredible joy to join in worship each week with the members of this church, and it's an honor to learn from a man so wise and relatable as Pastor Estep. I'd really encourage you to watch the podcast of at least his sermon today - it's Valentine's related, and it's challenging. You'll find it here... and seriously, watch it.
I could pray all day long that Seth and I never face the challenge of falling out of love with each other, but even the movie Fireproof taught us this simple truth: A marriage which is "fireproof" is not free from the threat of fire but rather is prepared to defend itself from the fires.
I know that Seth and I have no real clue of what's ahead of us, but I do know that we are doing our best to make our relationship fireproof.
And if you're ever in Columbia on a Sunday morning, visit church with us. You'll see just why we love it.
Or just watch it on TV, if you live in SC or Savannah or Augusta!
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
P.S.
As my mother reminded me today (yes, that means she's excited... however, I only didn't remember because my brain was slightly fried from student teaching), we're exactly 5 months out. I'm not sure how we got so quickly from over 14 months to 5, but we did.
Also, I am ignoring the fact that we have to make decisions about music. But if you have any suggestions, please let us know. It's difficult to plan a music major wedding on a ... music major budget ... when we want our friends to be able to relax and enjoy our special day with us.
Finally, I have GOT to get addresses soon. Before I know it, it's going to be March, and my mom is going to want to be addressing things. Seth's list is basically done - he's the perfect child... funny how the roles have switched. Anyway... :) He's still wonderful and totally great with all of this planning stuff (see below).
Went for my final dress fitting last weekend - had my sister-in-law a liiiittttllleeeee nervous as she zipped me in, but I assured her it'd be fine. It was, but still.... Fingers crossed.
Tomorrow is 150 days... so I'll see you then!
Also, I am ignoring the fact that we have to make decisions about music. But if you have any suggestions, please let us know. It's difficult to plan a music major wedding on a ... music major budget ... when we want our friends to be able to relax and enjoy our special day with us.
Finally, I have GOT to get addresses soon. Before I know it, it's going to be March, and my mom is going to want to be addressing things. Seth's list is basically done - he's the perfect child... funny how the roles have switched. Anyway... :) He's still wonderful and totally great with all of this planning stuff (see below).
Went for my final dress fitting last weekend - had my sister-in-law a liiiittttllleeeee nervous as she zipped me in, but I assured her it'd be fine. It was, but still.... Fingers crossed.
Tomorrow is 150 days... so I'll see you then!
Some quick things
I know that it has been a long time since I have posted. I am really trying to get use to this whole blogging thing. A few things have happened since the last time we have talked. I am starting my last semester of undergrad today. Shelley has started hers but today is her first day of student teaching. Praise God for the previous years of school.
I learned that I was going to have a niece (her name will be emrie grace). We got the tuxes solidified. We have a basic schedule of our wedding and are looking at the vows. We have even had 4 pre-marital counseling sessions.
It has been going real well and has been a blast. I never knew wedding planning could be so much fun from a guy's standpoint. Of course my favorites parts of planning was registering as Shelley allowed me to carry the scanning gun and shoot the bar codes (And this included 4 stores: Bed Bath & Beyond, Belk, Target, & Kohl's). We are excited.
Thanks for being there with us as we continue blogging. I hope to give another update this week (a little more detail). Hopefully Shelley and I can write a joint one this weekend. Have a great week.
I learned that I was going to have a niece (her name will be emrie grace). We got the tuxes solidified. We have a basic schedule of our wedding and are looking at the vows. We have even had 4 pre-marital counseling sessions.
It has been going real well and has been a blast. I never knew wedding planning could be so much fun from a guy's standpoint. Of course my favorites parts of planning was registering as Shelley allowed me to carry the scanning gun and shoot the bar codes (And this included 4 stores: Bed Bath & Beyond, Belk, Target, & Kohl's). We are excited.
Thanks for being there with us as we continue blogging. I hope to give another update this week (a little more detail). Hopefully Shelley and I can write a joint one this weekend. Have a great week.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Groom Involvement
According to The Knot, Seth and I have 200 days till our wedding. We started with over 400.. crazy.
Anyway, that's not what I'm here to say. This blog wasn't meant to be entirely about the wedding, so I'm here to change the current trend. I'm going to talk to you about Seth. It's fairly easy for me to do, but these specific details might explain a little about us.
If you haven't noticed, Seth is quite the involved groom. He's been that way long before we actually got engaged. Granted, it's unusual, but I love it. What I find interesting is how opposed some people are to groom involvement in wedding planning. Some people, mostly females, laugh it off and joke about how his opinion doesn't really matter. Honestly, I had people roll their eyes at me when I mentioned that I wouldn't make a final decision on tablecloths until I'd talked about it with Seth. For the life of me, I cannot figure out why I wouldn't.
I'm marrying him, right? Meaning: we are committing to spending the rest of our lives together with each other, through the good, the bad, the beautiful, the ugly, and the unexpected. Meaning: every decision I make affects now not only my life but his life as well. Meaning: communication, compromise, and understanding each others' wants, desires, needs, preferences, goals, fears, dislikes, and peeves are significant - nay, crucial - to a happy, healthy, supportive, effective life-long relationship.
Does it honestly make sense to begin a marriage by isolating one-half of a couple, responding to him with a disinterested chuckle and ignoring his opinions? Does it make sense to make decisions without the one with whom all future decisions will be made?
The one thing I understand less and less as the days count down is how there can be so much preparation for the wedding and so little preparation for the marriage.
I thank God as often as I can that Seth is the man He put in my life. I thank God that Seth spent hours online with me (and without me) looking through wedding invitations. I thank God that Seth wanted to go to the florist with me and had an opinion while he was there. I thank God that he asks questions so that our individual ideas of the wedding are as close as possible. Why? Because I know that every time we discuss the wedding, we learn another life lesson. We learn about each other; we learn how to communicate what we are trying to say in a way that the other understands. We learn how to work together to prioritize items within a budget. We learn what makes the other shine.
I'm sure that I haven't articulated my thoughts as completely as I wanted when I began, but I hope that when you finish reading this blog entry, you understand one of the many complexities that is Seth and Shelley. I'm not intending to say that Seth and I live a flawless existence together, but I do feel strongly about this situation. He is my future partner and the future head of my family. He's important to me, and I treasure his opinion, advice, and interest.
Now, I'm off my soapbox for today (which is lucky because the day's almost over).
Anyway, that's not what I'm here to say. This blog wasn't meant to be entirely about the wedding, so I'm here to change the current trend. I'm going to talk to you about Seth. It's fairly easy for me to do, but these specific details might explain a little about us.
If you haven't noticed, Seth is quite the involved groom. He's been that way long before we actually got engaged. Granted, it's unusual, but I love it. What I find interesting is how opposed some people are to groom involvement in wedding planning. Some people, mostly females, laugh it off and joke about how his opinion doesn't really matter. Honestly, I had people roll their eyes at me when I mentioned that I wouldn't make a final decision on tablecloths until I'd talked about it with Seth. For the life of me, I cannot figure out why I wouldn't.
I'm marrying him, right? Meaning: we are committing to spending the rest of our lives together with each other, through the good, the bad, the beautiful, the ugly, and the unexpected. Meaning: every decision I make affects now not only my life but his life as well. Meaning: communication, compromise, and understanding each others' wants, desires, needs, preferences, goals, fears, dislikes, and peeves are significant - nay, crucial - to a happy, healthy, supportive, effective life-long relationship.
Does it honestly make sense to begin a marriage by isolating one-half of a couple, responding to him with a disinterested chuckle and ignoring his opinions? Does it make sense to make decisions without the one with whom all future decisions will be made?
The one thing I understand less and less as the days count down is how there can be so much preparation for the wedding and so little preparation for the marriage.
I thank God as often as I can that Seth is the man He put in my life. I thank God that Seth spent hours online with me (and without me) looking through wedding invitations. I thank God that Seth wanted to go to the florist with me and had an opinion while he was there. I thank God that he asks questions so that our individual ideas of the wedding are as close as possible. Why? Because I know that every time we discuss the wedding, we learn another life lesson. We learn about each other; we learn how to communicate what we are trying to say in a way that the other understands. We learn how to work together to prioritize items within a budget. We learn what makes the other shine.
I'm sure that I haven't articulated my thoughts as completely as I wanted when I began, but I hope that when you finish reading this blog entry, you understand one of the many complexities that is Seth and Shelley. I'm not intending to say that Seth and I live a flawless existence together, but I do feel strongly about this situation. He is my future partner and the future head of my family. He's important to me, and I treasure his opinion, advice, and interest.
Now, I'm off my soapbox for today (which is lucky because the day's almost over).
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Kind of Off Subject
Seth has started applying for jobs and sending his resume out to various states' Southern Baptist Conventions. He's applied for one here in Cola, and while we both understand that it's a stretch, every once in a while, we look at apartments in the area. We've found a few that we like, and there's one aspect that I will now not go without:
Did you know that some apartment complexes serve weekday continental breakfast???
This is true, folks. They do. Continental breakfast.
Unfortunately, I haven't seen maid service advertised as an included perk. I'm holding out for that apartment complex. I know that when I find it, that's God's way of telling me it's where we're supposed to be.
Ok, I'm kidding. I mean, it would be awesome, but I'm totally prepared to share in the chores.
The problem with looking at apartments now is that I just want to know where to look! I want Seth to get a stellar job somewhere with really adorable, inexpensive apartments or homes so that I can productively waste time looking at them. And I want to be able to buy furniture... and cute decorations... and everything else I find on clearance that I can't buy because I have no home for it yet!
All in good time; I know. So, if you hear of any youth ministry jobs open, let us know :) And hey, if it's your church, it'll just mean we'll get to see you more... and if you love us enough to actually read this, we would love seeing you more.
Did you know that some apartment complexes serve weekday continental breakfast???
This is true, folks. They do. Continental breakfast.
Unfortunately, I haven't seen maid service advertised as an included perk. I'm holding out for that apartment complex. I know that when I find it, that's God's way of telling me it's where we're supposed to be.
Ok, I'm kidding. I mean, it would be awesome, but I'm totally prepared to share in the chores.
The problem with looking at apartments now is that I just want to know where to look! I want Seth to get a stellar job somewhere with really adorable, inexpensive apartments or homes so that I can productively waste time looking at them. And I want to be able to buy furniture... and cute decorations... and everything else I find on clearance that I can't buy because I have no home for it yet!
All in good time; I know. So, if you hear of any youth ministry jobs open, let us know :) And hey, if it's your church, it'll just mean we'll get to see you more... and if you love us enough to actually read this, we would love seeing you more.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Engagement photos
So, Katie McGee - of Katie McGee Photography - is quite a talented lady. Seth and I had our engagement photos done last night on the Horseshoe at USC and at the South Carolina State Fair! If you haven't seen them on our Facebooks yet, here's one of my favorite (ok, I love them all...)
Yup. We're cute. Katie makes us look so good.
I can't wait to see the rest of them. I'm hoping the ones at the fair are this awesome.
Ok... I'm going now.... :)
Yup. We're cute. Katie makes us look so good.
I can't wait to see the rest of them. I'm hoping the ones at the fair are this awesome.
Ok... I'm going now.... :)
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Welcome home! Now - PLAN!
When I come home, my mom and I go on these wedding planning rampages (for lack of better word). They are intense and awesome. I just feel inspired about things now! We were at Ace Hardware last night (my dad is renovating his bathroom, bless him) and I found these really unique pew decorations. They are much less expensive than if we'd chosen flowers, and they are very much me and Seth (ok, mainly me, but he'll love them).
Then, today (while watching Auburn and Carolina football!), Mom and I rocked out the centerpieces for the reception. We've actually been planning on buying them for a few months, but today we found them for less than half of the original price. You can bet we bought them! They, also, are not flowers and are quite unique.
What else have we done? Oh yes, I might have found my shoes and other accessories. We have an idea for decorations at the front of the church. Our engagement pictures are scheduled for Wednesday, and I can't wait. Seth has been diligent about working on his part of the guest list, for which I am grateful and also ashamed, because I haven't been proactive on mine! We're waiting for our invitations to go on sale and for us to have a roundabout number for the guest list before we order, but they are designed and ready to go! I think they match the wedding theme perfectly (which, by the way, is a garden theme - in an indoor church way).
I think that's all we've done this week. I mean, I got a car Thursday so that took up a good chunk of time :)
I know we need to figure out a new poll, so let me know if you have any ideas!
Then, today (while watching Auburn and Carolina football!), Mom and I rocked out the centerpieces for the reception. We've actually been planning on buying them for a few months, but today we found them for less than half of the original price. You can bet we bought them! They, also, are not flowers and are quite unique.
What else have we done? Oh yes, I might have found my shoes and other accessories. We have an idea for decorations at the front of the church. Our engagement pictures are scheduled for Wednesday, and I can't wait. Seth has been diligent about working on his part of the guest list, for which I am grateful and also ashamed, because I haven't been proactive on mine! We're waiting for our invitations to go on sale and for us to have a roundabout number for the guest list before we order, but they are designed and ready to go! I think they match the wedding theme perfectly (which, by the way, is a garden theme - in an indoor church way).
I think that's all we've done this week. I mean, I got a car Thursday so that took up a good chunk of time :)
I know we need to figure out a new poll, so let me know if you have any ideas!
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